decency......where it is

"indians hav a lots of values n respect for any stranger also"..........this is how indians r differentiated or somewhere valued from others but this is not da case..............some 14 hours back i got a call from one of my close friend....lets name her RIA as i dont wanna disclose her real name.i said hi but in reply i get to sense on phone that some one is actually weeping n its da gal who hardly weeps for anything hell also happen in her life.....it was for sure something really bad happened which has left her hurt.....so i quietly just askede whats da reason for ur weep...n she tels me how one of her friend found her pics in a guys i pod.......to add most shock those pics wer there on orkut tht too in a locked album......so how did this happen....a common question in everyone's mind who knew about it.At da out set we knew tht ya she doesn't know him......but when we peeped she finds out its a guy who proposed her 3 years back n she said a no n they r not at all in contact even she doesn't know his full name or anything............but this guy claims they r in a relationship since years n had almost all da stuff needed n not needed............finally i was forced to question myself what sequrity do i have as a girl n what decency do boys in INDIA have for girls...............was infact wondering if someone would have spoken such nonsense about his own sister or would have done much more cheap stuff to this what would have happened?????.............so risky ........every1 blames obviously gal wld hav given some lift but wht will u say in such a case that some guy finds u three year back on orkut through some friend n proposes u withih 2nd chat n u say a no n thn u r in no more contact finally after three years u find him speaking shit about u.................hmmmmmmm.............i myself feel so much insecure cant tel anyone

b4 i was about to write here stream of thoughts n stuff were running in my mind.........frankly i wanted to make it the best ...so finally i decided tht i will write exactly wht am thnkn rite now,though may be it is not tht important to all.Not many of my friends know tht i used to blog once n i closed it within a week but now i feel like ok u can do it n i was actually thnkn of blogging since last two weeks........n finally am actually doing it.......being fair i was too lazy to write since last three days.....whatevr finally today(14-o3-2010)am blogging.........welll i guess am just writing somethng or other on da whole meaningless.....so its better i signout rite now.....